The Internet is a great tool, and more and more people of all ages are beginning to use itas a way of meeting like minded people. Here’s ten tips to guide you through the maze and help you have more fun in your search…
1) Be yourself
The great thing about the internet is that you can be whoever you want to be!
This also means that whoever you are comminicating with can be whoever they WANT to be. So be aware that there may be some people who will be trying to trick you into finding out where you live for the WRONG reasons.
You can specify which state you reside, but tread carefully about revealing your exact location until you feel sure it is safe. The decision should feel comfortable for you.
2)Your email address
Keep your personal email address PRIVATE! Some people join online dating agencies without wanting to pay for the privilege of getting to know you. When members pay a registration fee, they need to divulge confidential information that must be verified
So if it ever becomes necessary, the dating agency can track down anyone who has paid for a membership. This ensures your safety.
Of course, there are visitors that want to try before they enroll, then there’s others that put some temporary email address in their ads and ask that you contact them off the website.
3) Your photograph
Be truthful about your age, and find pictures that are less then one year old! After all, you’re wishing people to be honest with you.
4) Your Profile.
Give some thought to developing your Profile. Things that may not seem important to you, such as hobbies, interests and activities, etc are the things that could attract that perfect partner
Have a go at putting some ideas together on your computer before going sraight into the dating website. Then you can “cut and paste” the final version. This also helps with any typos or grammar.
If you are looking to meet some new friends have a look at ” Getalife“. It’s Australia’s first activity based social networking site.
5) What sort of relationship you are seeking?
Are you looking for a companion? Or are you looking for a partner with a view to marraige
Let people know, so you don’t meet a wonderful person who is looking for a husband or wife. be honest about your intentions, whilst leaving the option to change your mind.
6) Some people will ask a lot of questions about you
… and give little in return
Tread carefully and make sure that you keep a file of their comments. If there are inconsistencies in what they say, take it as a WARNING
If you use the “signature” option on your emails that you send, then it would be wise to turn that off if it contains information such as a company name or a work phone number (even if you are self employed).
7) Email relationships develop
just as face-to-face relationships. Would you think it strange if on your first date someone asked loads of personal questions straight away?
Use some wisdom in getting a feel for people. Things are not always as they seem, and con artists DO prey on seniors citizens. Just be aware of what personal information you divulge.
Strictly off limits are your finances and or financial situation. If someone is asking all those sort of questions, then you should report them.
8)Your mobile phone
You can give someone your mobile phone number until you get to know someone REALLY well. That would be more than one date.
Remember,SAFETY FIRST! If your home phone number is listed, people can trace your home address.
Keep your home number private for as long as you need to verify all the information on your new friend.
9)First Date
On your first date ALWAYS meet in public in a place. Make sure there is ample parking that is well lit and close to the entrance.
Let a friend know where you are, and ask them to call a few minutes after the time you’ve arranged to mee your internet date to ensure you arrived safely.
This will let your date know that someone knows where you are and whom you are meeting.
Get your friend to verify your safe return home or meet them at another public place not far from your original meeting place.
Lunch dates or Coffee are a great way to start a new friendship.
10) Don’t rush anything!
More an more people are successfully dating online. It can be great fun and should be an enjoyable experience.
Online dating is a safe way to meet people in your own time from the safety and comfort of your home by following the above rules. As with any relationship, let it move as slowly as you need to be comfortable don’t rush it.
Follow your gut feelings on your new online dating friends. Relax, enjoy yourself, don’t take anything seriously and have fun and good luck as you search for your special friend or partner-to-be!
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